Girls are Girls!!

This post is the outcome of inner outrage caused by the MCPs(Google it) in and around my life.This para specially, lists the people keeping whom in my mind I wrote this post. I don't dedicate this to them. They obviously don't deserve it. And the list starts with those who have misconceptions or their own definitions about girls. They blame the entire clan of girls just because they don’t like one or two or many or may be all. Guys have their so called man-time, where everyone shares his own story. And to the end, they all come to a less-of-conclusion and more-of-judgement out of anger on girls and sympathy for their friends. And for all those Mr. Perfects or at least they think so.And for those whose blood boil when they hear "My persuasion can build a nation" from Beyounce's Who run the World. To all those who laugh with all the sarcasm on the earth, when women is the topic. To all those who feel listening to women singers, reading women writers as a disgrace to their machismo. To all those who like tag themselves and their friends in pics that appear fun to them and disgusting to others. To all those who create groups like "Just For Men" and post pics that make an helpless attempt to prove the worthlessness of women, but by posting those fake pics what actually they prove is their own stupidity. Like I love writing about women, so do they. But the difference is I support women and they do the exact inverse. Movies are made, comedy is spun, messages are forwarded, words are exchanged, stories are written to show women as worthless beings. If this is the case, then it obviously changes the meaning of worthlessness. Being a girl I feel it is my responsibility to make clear the misunderstood feelings of girls and try help them open up their eyes.
       Being a girl is the best part of my life. Girls are dads little angels. They are born as a boon to their parents. Only a woman knows how happy she is for having a baby girl. Because she now has a soul-mate. Only a daughter can understand what it feels like being a woman. Not a son.

       A girl demands a sorry only from her father even for a silly reason and the next person she demands that would be her beloved. 
       People say that girls make issue of almost everything. Can anyone please define what exactly “almost everything” is. Remember the girl who now opposed you, will be a future mother who has the ability to mould children.

       Many say girls don’t use brains. Yes, very true. Because they use their heart. Neither have they brains nor do they use them when something related to their loved ones is involved. I heard many guys say girls are crazy. They are crazy to skip their food and cry for ages when they have a fight with someone they love like life.

       Girls are jealous. Perfectly said. They get jealous only when they don’t get the love and importance they deserve. They know where they stand. Obviously, a girl doesn’t get jealous of Katrina Kaif because her hubby is her big fan. The reason is, she knows she is his life and not Katrina.

       Girls are selfish, it seems. They sacrifice anything and everything for an unknown someone. By the way, here I can define what is “anything and everything”. Everything means her sweet home, family, her room, bed, importantly her lifestyle. Anything means her sacrifice has no limits. And it includes issues as important as her career, goals, and ambitions. When is the meaning of sacrifice changed to selfish??

       A girl wanna look special not to the whole world but just for the one she loves. Girls talk too much. But to everyone else in their life, just to you. They spend loads of time shopping because they always want the best. They are never tired of waiting for the best. By the way if a guy is a friend to any girl, it’s not just by chance. But by choice. By her choice.
       Once I read a message saying, “A girl loves too many and a guy loves too much”. Yup, a girl loves even her family, friends and of course her lover. And a guy, loves a girl ignoring everyone around him to such a great extent that he finds solace only in slicing her throat right in the middle of a city road or by throwing acid on her face. This simply emphasizes on the fact that guys are jealous to let their love live her life with someone she likes. And the gory incidents of killing his beloved partner and then himself, quoting the reason as "Death at the same time in this life, helps them mingle together in next life." How shameful and stupid on their part. 

                                                              This is what a girl is... 

                                       
       This is how we girls are. Always a sweet heart. First to dad, then to brother, husband, and son. We gossip, we laugh loudly, we talk non-stop.We rule many lives, we guide, we mould, we love, we learn, we adjust, we regret, we forget, we shout, we fight. We exaggerate things because excitement is in our blood. We expect replies even for forward messages. We crack jokes for which no one laughs. After all, we are what we are. So, stop complaining and start loving!!

*Point to be noted "Exceptions always exist"

Too Responsible To Digest *

Today, a-need-for-change-in-our-system bug bit me. A system I am a part of. News channels are the medium between the general public and happening all round the world. But today, many years after the invention of channels, after undergoing revolutionary changes and still drifting with enormous advancement, I was wondering to what extent the news channels are socially responsible. A few examples answer this and unfortunately they answer unfavorably. 

One of the news channels was telecasting a program named so bizarrely that I restrict myself from using its name because I want my blog clean. That program was trying very hard to explain the most obvious change in the social life of the people in India. And this change is in the form of number of extra-marital affairs one can have and the techniques up to keep them a secret. I am not sure if the channel is blind not to see the productive advancement we are making or is it despicable to ignore it. Also, what was the actual intention behind the program, whether to alert the house wives or to give new ideas to people. 

And there was another show explaining why a particular heroine was exposing in a movie. The entire program went on in a language that would embarrass every woman in the world, but not anchor of the program. What is more shocking is the voice-over was of a woman and she modulates her voice so much, stresses on some specific words which forces me to scorn and change the channel. And yet I am writing about it, oh my guts. If that was the scary story of the audio, imagine how the video could be. Another channel was telecasting a detailed program related to the physical appearance of the heroines. I was shocked by the way they were explaining the features of their physiques. They act so true to their stories as if the heroines themselves have claimed to them in person. Why don’t they ever speak about the bulging bodies of our male actors? They still act as heroes in spite of puffs of fat, broad playgrounds, family packs. The reason is simple, it is assumed by many and accepted by others that we Indians like sleaze. Those who assumed took an advantage of the vulnerability of those who accepted. 

There is another channel which shows regular based on the existence of aliens. We all how most of the news channels get the information from - Internet. Research is still going on, why tell the same thing every week?  There are many and many situations where the media intrudes the personal life of celebrities, ask them weird questions and when they freak out, make an big issue out of it and even take pleasure of making an hour show  on that.

One of the news channels was telecasting a song that pushed many people into depression and forced many more to end their lives. This song was banned in many countries and our channel proudly presents a show by playing the song again and again. Excuse me, people are watching your channel so please have some common sense. And the next day the same channel was telecasting a programme showing a doll with life. OMG, I was wondering are these reporters or refugees from tribal area?  Gosh, only children grow up, but news channels will never. They pick up some random stories and videos from internet and make an hour show out of it. For your kind information news channels are not meant for just entertainment.

Thanks to the government which laid restrictions on reporting the situation at OU long back. They exaggerate too much which excites the people especially the youngsters. At the same time the IPL auction was going on last year. The news channels ASAP switched from the agitation going on in our state to those cricket stories and histories. True that they must be up to date, but the order of priority must always be considered.

In the last decade many news channels have popped up. Are there any criteria to be fulfilled or rules to be followed or any oath to be taken for anyone to start a news channel? The present situation doesn't make it seem so. Today what all you need to start a news channel is crores in your pocket and political contacts. Why are even actors starting channels and newspapers if not for their political publicity or may be because they consider it a commercial field.

What all I wanted to say through this post is that the news channels have the ability to change the society. There are many situations where the media has taken proactive responsibility and came out successfully.  Why do they have to highlight more of provocative/negative/useless content when there are many colorful, positive, informative topics always available? May be it is in every profession to highlight the negatives of others. Even I am doing the same right now.

*Applicable to local Indian News channels.